I'll start this blog by stating this is not directed to anyone in particular. This is a general observation I have made in regards to a few close -friends- of mine whom seem intent on wrecking each others' relationship/friendship by means of social networking site tools.
Realistically, life is too short to be concerned about who is saying what on MySpace, whether or not you're on someone's top friends' list or what order you come in, and even what their headlines/status message reads. People, it is the internet!
The animosity, indirect insults, or blatant attacks on people through these means fall very short on the list of priorities in our lives. I am sure, as many of you are, that we each have bigger concerns in our lives then what someone is saying about us on some site. It boils down to three simple words: High School Drama.
Come on, many of us left high school behind years ago when we graduated. We've moved on and grown into full fledged adults [I hope] since that time. Why then, are we so intent on falling into the morass of bickering online like school children?
It is pretty interesting to see the psychological accounts it presents, but beyond that, not much else beyond barely sustainable entertaining value. Ask yourself this? Would you really sit there and have a spitting contest in real life? Are you so consumed with the lack of self confidence that you have to monitor and alarm yourself at what someone else is saying or doing? I'm not, personally.
For those of you worried about your boyfriends/girlfriends? There is a Spanish adage that goes: "Si se quiere ir, como quiera se vas ir." - "If they're going to leave, they'll leave regardless." The more you worry about another person interfering in your relationship, the more you empower them! Focus on your own relationship and address whatever issues WITHIN that relationship.
Any external factors threatening your relationship is really not germane to the internal dynamics that threatens to tear your relationship apart. They are merely tools by which an act is perpetrated.
An old friend is suddenly treating you like crap and defaming you on MySpace? Gasp! Unless you're some sensationalistic attention seeking individual, you should simply step away from that entire mess. If they are capable of doing something that trivial and petty, then you must ask yourself whether they are truly your friend. It is really a matter of simplicity that often gets lost in a web of complexeties.
Someone said something you don't agree with? A simple solution would be to agree to disagree. We are all individual human beings with our own set of emotions, traits, unique qualities, thoughts, and thinking processes. Chances are, you will hold different and often opposite views then another person. Its what makes us so unique and interesting. Imagine a world where we all thought and acted in the same fashion? Pretty dull, I imagine.
Religion and politics [along with a plethora of other issues] are both delicate issues that trigger many reactions. The key? Learn to respond, not react. Why? Because reactions are something triggered by instincts, not logic. We must learn to respect the views and beliefs of others, even if they conflict with our own.
In short and closing, if someone or something on MySpace, Facebook, or any other host of networking site is causing you great discomfort or unnecessary agitation, then you should ask yourself why?
After all, it is -your- space, and much like being in your home, if you cannot be comfortable in your own home then there is something drastically wrong. Take a breathe, and relax. If someone is dogging you on MySpace, who cares?
Now if you see them on the streets, that's a whole entire other matter.
Respectfully,
Luisito / Jiovanni / Pyramid
Please feel free to comment or ask questions. I'm always in the mood for a good [and positive] debate/dialogue.
The 3th day of the 2th cycle, Year of Strife
Zar'tenya meditated peacefully in the sanctuary of the Lambent Flats. The City had been quiet for the past few months since the fall of Bashir. The temple of Bashir had been claimed by a peculiar man, Cedryk Orgoth. He called it the House of Orgoth, after his namesake. The Edgeward Barrows, he had claimed them to be under Orgoth control, calling them Orgoth Plains. He was aided by a former Echten Knight, known as Ketill.
Far off in the Valley of Totalility, now known as the Valley of Nobility, a mysterious woman led a movement with another former Echten Knight, known as Slirenie. The two women spoke of honorable deeds and virtue from within their stronghold, known as the Tribunal of Solara.
Kal'lankissa had recovered but since the fall of Bashir, she was not seen beyond the chambers of the Library of Idoaclese, as her appearances became less frequent. Amaymon went into self-exile after taking the life of the human Thrall, whom he learned was known as Jarelek, a noble warrior in his time who joined the Echt in order to protect his own home, much like himself. Amaymon's grief became unbearable, he vanished without a trace leaving behind the 'Sabre of All' hidden within the City of Dreams.
Remulus walked through the portal and startled Zar'tenya from her meditation. "The City is under attack by some beasts. Hordes of them, of all kinds. You fight one, another takes it place. The dreamers are unable to fend them off, it is truly chaotic out there." he said in a loud voice.
"I thought you would be excited at such, my master." said Zar'tenya and she slowly opened her eyes and raised herself up from her meditative position.
"In other circumstances, perhaps. This is madness. Where did these things come from?" asked Remulus as removed his shield momentarily, his avatar bruised and turning different shades of blue and black.
"The Shards of Bashir. But much smaller fragments of different sizes. When Bashir fell, his shards were scattered all throughout the City of Dreams. Over the months, the fragments thrived in our City and merged with the very fabric of the City. Using the very essence of the City, the fragments take many different forms to manifest themselves," said Zar'tenya as she cracked her neck as she tilted her head slightly.
"How do you know all this?" asked Remulus with a cynical look upon his face.
"I have fought them before, my master. The snake-like Wyrms, the four legged Chimeras, the slithering Krakkens, and the deadly Shades. The most fearsome of them all, the Revenants. I have fought their strongest kind within their own nest, the Dark Awakening. It is time, my master." replied Zar'tenya, her words slicing through the air. She vanished through the portal, as Remulus became confused at her words.
"She has become far too dangerous indeed. She will soon unlock her true potential, she must die soon..." whispered Remulus to himself as he flared his nostrils.
As Remulus vanished through the portals, the two dreamers would go to fight the hordes of creatures that now invaded the City of Dreams, such beasts became a thing of...
...nightmares.
- The Chronicler